Being comfortable with yourself before forcing yourself on someone else.

"My dad used to tell me the main reason most relationships don't work out is that one or both of the people involved is looking for the other person as the solution to their problems. His notion was that if you were happy by yourself, you'd likely be be happy with who you are partnered with. It seems all too simple, but I liked to believe it." --they were referring to business, but... it applies to other things too

 
--Ignite